2011年3月25日星期五

别人不了解你 ( They Don't Understand You)

经常听到周着的人老是抱怨别人不了解他/她。
今天我想以另一个角度来评评理。
People always complain that other people don't understand them.
I want to analysis this problem today.
Why this will happen in our daily life.

“Hey,快来了解我吧~~~”
"Hey, please understand me~~"

有时不是别人不了解你,只是他/她不能了解你。

Oopps~~ 
你有觉得别人不了解你吗?

(抱歉,这是不客观的客观看法,请对号入座)
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So,that is the main reason why it is hard to understand other people's mind.
Ooopps~~
Do you feel that other people don't understand you?

( This is just my personal opinion.)

2 条评论:

ppwen 说...

如果对方不尝试了解,不管你的心是外露的还是藏着的,对方都不可能了解你。了解一个人,不是嘴巴说说而已,还必须用心,慢慢发现对方的一切,细心知道对方的需要,才算是真正的了解。 =)

NYPstyle 说...

*like* ur comment =)
其实了解是双方的,就在于想了解和想被了解的人。
的确是要慢慢地慢慢地用心了解,不简单。
哈哈